Where Were You When the World Stopped Turning?
Almost 3,000 people died in the terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001. Three thousand people. We all watched in horror from our living rooms, our schools, our workplaces.
We watched in horror because nothing so terrible had ever happened to our country – not in our lifetimes, not since World War II, which most of us had only heard about from relatives – or history books.
For weeks after 9-11, we cried for those we lost. We cried for the children whose fathers and mothers didn’t come home. We sobbed over stories of heroism and bravery that saved some lives but couldn’t save others. Three thousand lives were lost – and there was nothing we could do to change it. We flew flags from our porches and our cars. We flew flags at half-mast for eons.
Together, as Americans, we supported the families of the loved ones who were lost. We, as a nation, cried together.
Alan Jackson wrote a song that encompassed 9-11: Where Were You When the World Stopped Turning? If I ever forget exactly how I felt during that time, I listen to that song.
Fast forward 19 years.
People died in China. Then they died in the U.S. Then a few more people died. Then a bunch more.
A new virus had taken hold of the world.
Eventually, three thousand people died – again. The newspapers reported the irony: death numbers from coronavirus in New York City were higher than the number of deaths from 9-11.
Then three thousand more people died. Then another 3,000 people – and another 3,000 people – and another 3,000 people. In fact, so many people died that we’ve basically hosted fifty-two separate 9-11 terrorist attacks.
Imagine 52 days just like 9-11.
But this time, we are not sitting around crying. We are not rallying together, in support of one another, sending prayers for the families who have lost loved ones – 158,000 loved ones.
There are no waving flags – not anywhere. No one is writing songs about our sorrow. In fact, no one seems to even care that people are dying – lots and lots and lots of people are dying.
Instead, they’re talking about percentages: Not everyone dies, they say. My odds are good, they say.
Thousands of people are going about their lives like everything is awesome – or at least “normal.”
We are supposed to stay indoors, isolate, take care of our families. We are supposed to support our communities by staying home. And if we must go out – and honestly, we all must go out – we should put a mask on our faces, so that we (please) don’t contaminate and possibly kill our neighbors.
Most of my family – my loved ones – and my dearest friends are diligently doing this.
But some aren’t.
And a whole lot of strangers aren’t. They won’t wear the masks, they won’t stay indoors, and they sure aren’t supporting their neighbors.
Fifty-two terrorist attacks so far – and not a single tear shed as a country. Instead, we’re bickering. We’re screaming about freedom while the rest of the world laughs – and cries – at our misfortune.
The rest of the world is crying, watching us, as they secure and stabilize their own countries. The way we cried about Italy.
The rest of the world is looking at us the way we looked at the poor, starving children from the Sally Struthers commercials – their wide, vacant eyes.
“Won’t you please help?”
We are now the saddest, most pathetic country on the planet.
But instead of mourning our losses and doing what we can together, we are arguing. How many more times does the world have to stop turning for us to actually do something about it?
This is heartbreakingly true. My son (28) & his fiance (25) live with us & are going to Florida on September 18th for 2 weeks. My husband & I have tried everything to talk them out of their trip. They are the age that believes they are invincible. They will spend 2 weeks at a hotel when they come back to MD because our oldest son has MS.
I’m so sick of hearing that the masks are taking away our liberties. I am, unfortunately, not able to wear a mask for any longer than 10-15 minutes without getting sick. A migraine that either evolves to vomiting or doesn’t, but still kicks my ass for the rest of the day. Because of this, when I HAVE to go to the store, I will wear the mask so loose that I cover my mouth, then cover my nose if in a populated area of the store. My husband is an absolute wonderful man & he goes to the store 9 times out of 10. I have tried all the masks, none with any success. I’ve spent a small fortune on these damn masks & can’t wear any of them! And I have a feeling that my problems with the mask aren’t because of oxygen; I think I am sensitive to carbon dioxide. I’ve done a lot of investigating & that’s the only thing I can come up with. I have suffered from different types of migraine since age 10 – I was a pedestrian hit by a motorcycle in 2nd grade. I had a TBI, which they didn’t know anything about back then.
So, we daily walk to a pond where I can feed my ducks & we can exercise our dog. Thank God we don’t have to wear a mask during those times, because I would just be stuck at home.
I am dying to go visit my mom, sister & nephews as well as my husband’s family in Pittsburgh, but he can’t travel any further than 100 miles from work without prior authorization. And I know we shouldn’t travel up there.
I would pay $100 if I could find someone willing to do acrylic nails outside!! And I really miss just walking through shopping malls, but even though they are open (which I disagree with), I know I won’t expose myself until our numbers really are much better. We just had 900+ people test positive in 24 hours in MD.
I grew up with Kenny and Karen was a very special friend of mine. My heart breaks for him, because they were just so in love.
You have a beautiful way of writing, and I look forward to reading everything you write.
Please take care!! Maribeth
Thanks for your comments; it is a tough time right now for so many people. I feel for you and your kids – even though they’re not kids. My son is going back to college in two weeks, in spite of my best efforts. I just keep praying that they will close campus QUICK. I’ve got an autoimmune disorder and my husband is old as dirt, so we’re not okay with the virus coming home with my son!
I know you aren’t asking for advice about the mask, but I have a theory about your headaches: have you tried hydrating like crazy before you go out (water only – NO caffeine) and then breathing slowly through your nose while wearing your mask? Long, slow breaths through your nose actually reduce *stress* which is also a common cause of headaches – and would make sense, given how awful it is to go out nowadays! But 90% of headaches are caused by dehydration – so maybe try a combination of those things if you need to go out with a mask. Hope it helps! And thanks again for the comments.